Hi, how you doing?
Have you observed yourself, what happens when you are hurt broken?
You and your partner are having some conflicts about something, you told them to do something but they do something else. They could have done easily what you told them to do, you feel hurt broken.
You feel unloved and unsatisfied, what to do? You can feel the cloud of the feelings building inside, you don't feel right.
The reason for this cloud can be something else too, a feeling of jealousy can also make you feel worse. Suppose you and your partner are living at different places, kind of scenario when you are not married yet.
You come online in the Facebook or Whats App, you see your partner online too. Now while you are talking to them, you sensed that their attention is somewhere else.
What is she/he doing? Is he/she chatting with someone else? Or is he/she busy in browsing the pics of a bitch online.
You start to reply in the similar manner, and a untold war start between you. You start ignoring each other, but deep down inside you know you are heart broken.
Now there can be two cases, either your partner was really doing what you thought was happening or was not. If the first case is there, I think in short time period you will come to know about it.
The best way is to remain neutral and see if this is happening in real. Everybody want fidelity in love relation, boy or girl, equally.
The reason for infidelity are not to be understood, and doesn't matter, if somebody is not loyal to you now, don't expect them to be loyal in the future. Expectations reduces joy, so don't expect the loyalty in the future too. If you can go in such a way, go on, otherwise there is something which hurts a lot but we have to do.
That is called break up, I don't know how to do it, maybe simply you switch to the next one. Pushing NEXT button in your mind is difficult one, but you have to do it. This is the time when you need to listen to a number of sad songs, songs which can express your feelings to the core of your heart.
Should it be a formal break up or simply just walking away, without a single bye? I think it doesn't matter, there will be a mutual feeling of the distrust and heart break, and it doesn't matter how you do it.
Both of you will get the message, it hurts!!! Badly.
If you want to cry, cry yourself, it helps.
Take it a lesson for yourself, but never stop loving. Love with more intensity next time, so that your next partner need not to do the same thing. I think focussing on the love itself is more important, rather than the hurt breaks. Remember the Law of Attraction?
You get what you really want or desire in your life. It works silently, behind your back. Law of Attraction should be applied in a positive way, by focussing on what you want, rather than what you don't want.
Thank you for your kind visit!
Have you observed yourself, what happens when you are hurt broken?
You and your partner are having some conflicts about something, you told them to do something but they do something else. They could have done easily what you told them to do, you feel hurt broken.
You feel unloved and unsatisfied, what to do? You can feel the cloud of the feelings building inside, you don't feel right.
The reason for this cloud can be something else too, a feeling of jealousy can also make you feel worse. Suppose you and your partner are living at different places, kind of scenario when you are not married yet.
You come online in the Facebook or Whats App, you see your partner online too. Now while you are talking to them, you sensed that their attention is somewhere else.
What is she/he doing? Is he/she chatting with someone else? Or is he/she busy in browsing the pics of a bitch online.
You start to reply in the similar manner, and a untold war start between you. You start ignoring each other, but deep down inside you know you are heart broken.
The best way is to remain neutral and see if this is happening in real. Everybody want fidelity in love relation, boy or girl, equally.
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The reason for infidelity are not to be understood, and doesn't matter, if somebody is not loyal to you now, don't expect them to be loyal in the future. Expectations reduces joy, so don't expect the loyalty in the future too. If you can go in such a way, go on, otherwise there is something which hurts a lot but we have to do.
That is called break up, I don't know how to do it, maybe simply you switch to the next one. Pushing NEXT button in your mind is difficult one, but you have to do it. This is the time when you need to listen to a number of sad songs, songs which can express your feelings to the core of your heart.
Should it be a formal break up or simply just walking away, without a single bye? I think it doesn't matter, there will be a mutual feeling of the distrust and heart break, and it doesn't matter how you do it.
Both of you will get the message, it hurts!!! Badly.
If you want to cry, cry yourself, it helps.
Take it a lesson for yourself, but never stop loving. Love with more intensity next time, so that your next partner need not to do the same thing. I think focussing on the love itself is more important, rather than the hurt breaks. Remember the Law of Attraction?
You get what you really want or desire in your life. It works silently, behind your back. Law of Attraction should be applied in a positive way, by focussing on what you want, rather than what you don't want.
Thank you for your kind visit!
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