Love Gurus

There comes a time in life when you want someone to come and help with your love life. When you lost the love of your life, you want it back. It becomes a matter which effects other parts of your life too. If you are a student, it will effect your studies, if you are a professional it will effect your productivity. You feel devastated with the situation which seems far out of your reach, you are about to surrender but then you hear about LOVE GURU, and hope creeps in.

Does it ever happened in your life? Have you met any LOVE GURU? 

I think if you have not met them in physical, you sure have read about them. In west they call these LOVE GURUS with another name. Pick Up Artists (PUAs) is a famous word because in western society it is quite open to talk about them. PUAs got the attention of the world, when in September 2005 Neil Strauss wrote his bestselling book, "The Game - penetrating the secret society of the pick up artists". It is a non-fiction book in which Neil tells his own story of getting in touch with this society of PUAs which was under cover before. Neil was working with the Rolling stone while he stumbled upon an online forum of the PUAs and started posting in it. Neil Strauss explains how he changed his old personality into the personality of STYLE(the name he chose when he entered in PUA society) and became the most famous and sought after PUA himself after Mystery(Another PUA) in this new found society. 

Beside Mystery he met so many other PUAs naming few  here, Ross Jeffries, David D'Angelo, Papa and Tyler Durdon etc. He turns himself from a frustrated chump to a star among his fellow mates. He left this society of the Pick up artists later because he found faults in it. He thought that sarging(a term used for the act of picking up girls) in itself is a act of undermining the opposite sex and can result in having the sick beliefs about them. So as you might have guessed that these are not the LOVE Gurus that you are looking for. You can learn from Neil Strauss that having a numbers of sex encounters with the opposite sex will not make you a happy person, it only fuels up your false ego. 

You have to think about your priorities in life. There is always something which we have passion for and once we find that passion of our life, and start working for it, the other parts of the life starts moving ahead without any effort. LOVE Gurus have become as they are to earn the money. If you meet the LOVE Gurus, you might turn into a LOVE Guru by yourself if you have interest in becoming so. You have to look for the people who have a successful relationship. You can learn from their life, by searching for their life, and knowing them better. Have some special interests in your life other than this mental rut of calling yourself a chump. It is all about your mind, who keeps telling you that you can not have a happy relationship. Put your mind somewhere else where it can produce something better for you, rather than these sick thoughts.

Treat the opposite sex just like you treat the same sex, make them your friend, and in no time you will find that the other things happens by itself and you will not even care if they happen or not. Be human and treat them as human. You don't have to go to a LOVE GURU, because they are not someone special, but they are the people like us who know how to respect everyone equally in their life. So respect everybody no matter a lady or gents.
Have a quality life by having a very nice routines and habits in your life like : Meditate, Buy some nice books, go to gym, and eat well. Have nice joyful friends, who can share the same habits.
Stick to these habits throughout your life.